I’ve been thinking—maybe it’s time we give “stay-at-home mom” a little glow-up and embrace the title homemaker instead. Imagine this: “What do you do for a living?” “Oh, I’m a homemaker.” Doesn’t that just sound so warm and lovely? Like you’re curating a little slice of heaven on earth?

But let’s be honest—homemaking doesn’t always get the credit it deserves in today’s culture. It’s often seen as old-fashioned or, worse, insignificant. Thankfully, God’s Word tells a much different story. From lessons from Proverbs 31, we can see scripture shows us that homemaking isn’t just a task—it’s a calling. It’s about creating a space where love, service, and God’s glory can shine brightly.

So, let’s dive into what God has to say about homemaking and rediscover how this beautiful role fits into our lives today. Here’s God’s Perspective on Homemaking: Lessons from Proverbs 31.

God’s Perspective on Homemaking: Lessons from Proverbs 31

A lot can be said when we read through Proverbs 31:10–31. We not only see a “virtuous woman” that is described but we also can read a homemaker and how we can honor God in our homemaking. Being a homemaking—or being a “virtuous woman”—isn’t just a checklist of tasks; it’s an attitude and a posture of the heart. While the world often views “homemaking” or being a stay-at-home mama through a lens of endless (and sometimes negative) chores, the reality is so much richer and more meaningful. It’s about creating a space where love, purpose, and God’s presence thrive. We can also obtain this posture when we study the attributes of Psalms 31 Woman.

The Heart of Homemaking Begins with How We Love Our Husbands: God’s Perspective on Homemaking: Lessons from Proverbs 31

The Proverbs 31:10-12 woman shows us that homemaking starts with honoring God, and one of the most beautiful ways she does this is by honoring her husband. Her relationship with her husband is the foundation, setting the tone for love, respect, and unity in their home. Proverbs 31:11-12 says, “The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.”

When she prioritizes her husband’s well-being, she’s creating a partnership built on trust, kindness, and mutual respect. This doesn’t just strengthen their bond; it also creates a safe and peaceful environment where her family can grow and thrive. Homemaking is about so much more than just checking tasks off a to-do list—it’s about nurturing the relationships that matter most and glorifying God through how we love and serve.

When a wife honors her husband, she reflects Christ’s humility and selfless love.

When a wife honors her husband, she reflects Christ’s humility and selfless love. And let’s be real—this isn’t about being “less than” or losing your voice, although culture today will try to tell you otherwise. It’s about willingly putting your husbands needs above your own as an act of love and service to God. This kind of sacrificial love turns your home into a sanctuary of grace, warmth, and peace.

Oh trust me, I am far from perfect at this! I stumble, I get it wrong, and I often find myself biting my tongue..a lot.

But here’s the beautiful thing—Jesus, our Good Shepherd, doesn’t expect perfection. He gently leads us, picks us up when we fall, and gives us a fresh start every single day. His mercies? Brand new. His grace? Overflowing. And that, my friend, is the best news for a messy, grace-needing mama like me! We get the opportunity to start again and learn how to honor our husbands more every day.

So, the heart of the home? It starts with a heart that honors God by loving and respecting your husband. This is the foundation for a home filled with love, joy, and the peace only He can bring. What a beautiful calling that is!

The Heart of Homemaking Is An Act Of Worship

Now we move on to Proverbs 31:13-20, and after this little mama honors and respects her hubby, she gets to work! She’s out gathering materials, cooking up a storm, hunting down the best deals, running her own little side hustle, and let’s be real—probably reheating the same cup of coffee for the third time. This mama is a multitasking queen, proving that homemaking is far from dull—it’s a full-blown adventure of resourcefulness, love, and a whole lot of determination.

Honestly, where’s her cape? Because she’s basically a superhero in an apron!

All jokes aside, we can see she’s busy, pouring herself into her tasks and honoring the Lord through her work. She tackles each one to the best of her ability, embodying the spirit of Colossians 3:23 (NIV): “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” When we approach our daily tasks with this mindset, even the simplest chores become an act of worship, a way to glorify God in the everyday moments.

Homemaking isn’t about perfection—it’s about faithfulness.

Homemaking isn’t about perfection—it’s about faithfulness. It’s about showing up every day and stewarding what God has entrusted to us with a joyful heart (even if that joy comes with a side of reheated coffee and a messy bun).

Let’s be real—every home looks different. Some of us are running on tight schedules, others on tight budgets, and most of us are just trying to keep the laundry from becoming a second roommate. But at the end of the day, it’s not about what we’re doing—it’s about how we’re doing it.

When we approach those everyday tasks with love and intention—whether it’s wiping sticky hands, budgeting for groceries, or making a home that feels safe and welcoming—we’re honoring the Lord. Because when we serve our families well, we’re ultimately serving Him. And that? That makes every little task, no matter how small, absolutely worth it.

The Ultimate Lesson on God’s Perspective on Homemaking: Lessons from Proverbs 31:

Proverbs 31:21-31 shows us a woman who doesn’t just get through her daily tasks—she thrives in them. She cares for her family, runs her home with wisdom, and serves with a heart full of love. But what makes her stand out isn’t just what she does—it’s how she does it. She works diligently, honors God in the everyday moments, and creates a home that reflects His goodness. Because of her faithfulness, her family rises up and calls her blessed. And at the end of the day, her greatest reward isn’t just a well-run home—it’s glorifying the Lord in all she does. Now that is homemaking with purpose!

What we can really take away from the Proverbs 31 woman when it comes to homemaking is that our attitude matters. We have two choices—we can grumble our way through chores, or we can shift our mindset and embrace them with gratitude, reflecting the heart of a Proverbs 31 woman. That never-ending pile of laundry? A reminder of the clothes we’re blessed to have. That messy kitchen? Proof of full bellies and memories made. It’s all about perspective, and when we see our work as a way to serve our families and honor God, even the daily tasks become something beautiful.

Attitude of Gratitude

Chelsea Lee Smith from Momentsaday.com shared a beautiful “10 Things I’m Grateful For” list that perfectly captures this attitude of gratitude. t’s a reminder that a simple mindset shift can turn our daily tasks into daily blessings.

So yes, mama, there’s always something to do—laundry piling up, errands to run, and kids to chase down (or taxi around). But every task, no matter how small, is an opportunity to love and serve your family. When we care for our home with intention—staying on top of what needs to be done instead of letting chaos take over—we reflect diligence, thoughtfulness, and a heart that honors God.

Homemaking isn’t about perfection; it’s about purpose. A purpose to glorify God. And when we embrace it with joy, we’re not just managing a home—we’re building a place where love and faith can thrive.

Closing Encouragement For The Homemaker.

So, we can clearly see God’s perspective on homemaking through the example of the Proverbs 31 woman—it’s not just about chores, it’s about honoring, worshiping, and glorifying Him in the everyday moments. It’s about taking the blessings He’s given us and stewarding them well.

The world may not always understand the love and intention we pour into our homes, but we do. We know the richness of creating a space filled with His peace, love, and grace. And that kind of homemaking? It’s not just work—it’s a sacred calling and a beautiful act of faith.

Beautiful mamas, homemakers and Proverbs 31 women, let’s embrace homemaking as the high calling that it is. God has uniquely equipped each of us to create homes that reflect His love, grace, and peace. Whether you’re a seasoned homemaker or just starting your journey, lean into His wisdom and strength. Seek to glorify Him in the work of your hands, and remember that He sees and values every effort you make for your family.

As Proverbs 31:30 reminds us, “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Let’s fear the Lord, love our families, and honor God in our homes.

You’re not just a homemaker—you’re a world-changer, shaping lives and hearts for eternity.

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Hugs Mama,

Cassie